{"id":26013,"date":"2024-05-24T19:24:23","date_gmt":"2024-05-24T19:24:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/avrupapress.com\/main\/?p=26013"},"modified":"2024-05-24T19:24:36","modified_gmt":"2024-05-24T19:24:36","slug":"nikahin-onunu-acin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/avrupapress.com\/main\/2024\/05\/24\/nikahin-onunu-acin\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u0130KAHIN \u00d6N\u00dcN\u00dc A\u00c7IN"},"content":{"rendered":"<div dir=\"auto\">A\u015fa\u011f\u0131da okuyaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z mektubunda H. A. ad\u0131nda bir gen\u00e7 k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131za aittir. Bu k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z mektubunda diyor ki; \u201cHayallerimin ba\u015f\u0131nda hi\u00e7 \u015f\u00fcphesiz, e\u015fim olacak delikanl\u0131n\u0131n beni sevmesi, benim de onu sevmem gerekir. Her gen\u00e7 k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z kocas\u0131 olacak delikanl\u0131n\u0131n, yani \u201cbeyaz atl\u0131 prensinin\u201d anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131, yak\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131, bir kariyer sahibi ve \u00e7evresinde sayg\u0131nl\u0131k uyand\u0131ran bir insan olmas\u0131n\u0131 ister. Tabii biraz da varl\u0131kl\u0131 olmas\u0131 gerekir ki kendisini ba\u015fkalar\u0131na muhta\u00e7 etmesin\u201d diye yaz\u0131yor.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><strong>B\u0130R GEN\u00c7 KIZIN HAYAL\u0130<\/strong><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Sizi ve \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 uzun s\u00fcredir takip ediyorum. \u0130nternet sitelerinde yaz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 okuyor bu konuda verdi\u011finiz konferanslar\u0131n notlar\u0131n\u0131 takip etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum. Sonun da size bu mektubu yazmay\u0131 uygun buldum.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">\u201cHer gen\u00e7 k\u0131z gibi benimde gelece\u011fe y\u00f6nelik bir\u00e7ok hayallerim vard\u0131r. \u00d6\u011frenimi tamamlamak, bir kariyer sahibi olmak, iyi bir i\u015f sahibi olmak, sonra kendisini anlayan ve seven, kendisinin de onu sevdi\u011fi ve \u201ckocam\u201d diyebilece\u011fi bir erke\u011fi olmak. Daha sonra \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n annesi olmak. Bunlara bakmak, bu \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ile mutlu bir hayat ya\u015famak istiyorum. Bu hayaller i\u00e7in de en \u00f6nemlisi hi\u00e7 ku\u015fku yok ki evlenece\u011fi erke\u011fi se\u00e7mek, b\u00f6ylece mutlu bir hayat\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 aralamak, geliyordu.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">\u00c7evremde bir\u00e7ok k\u0131z arkada\u015f\u0131m, kendilerine bir tak\u0131m erkek arkada\u015flar bularak onlarla fl\u00f6rt etmeye ba\u015flam\u0131\u015flard\u0131. Her bir arkada\u015f\u0131m, delikanl\u0131 ile neler konu\u015ftular, neler yapt\u0131lar, nas\u0131l heyecanlar ya\u015fad\u0131lar bunlar\u0131 bana anlat\u0131yorlard\u0131.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Ben bunlar\u0131 dinliyorum ve i\u00e7imden bir ses bana; \u201c(H), senin bu k\u0131zlardan neyin eksik. Fl\u00f6rt eden k\u0131z arkada\u015flar\u0131na s\u00f6ylesen onlar da erkek arkada\u015flar\u0131na s\u00f6ylerler ve sana da bir erkek arkada\u015f bulurlar. Veya s\u0131n\u0131fta be\u011fendi\u011fin delikanl\u0131ya biraz hissettirirsen o seni hemen arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131na alacakt\u0131r\u201d diyordum.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Aynaya bak\u0131yor, \u00e7irkin bir k\u0131z olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyordum. Hatta g\u00fczel bir k\u0131z bile say\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131m. Boyum, bosum yerindeydi. Giydiklerime dikkat ediyor, ete\u011fim ile ayakkab\u0131m\u0131n, \u00e7orab\u0131m ile \u00e7antam\u0131n uyumlu renkleri ta\u015f\u0131mas\u0131na dikkat ediyordum. Sa\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 itina ile tar\u0131yor, ancak kabartarak delikanl\u0131lar\u0131n dikkatlerini \u00fczerinde toplamaktan ka\u00e7\u0131yordum.\u201d<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Ama ben bu yolu tercih etmemi\u015f, her \u015feyimi ama her \u015feyimi kendisine \u201ckocam\u201d diyebilece\u011fim bir delikanl\u0131ya vermenin erdemini ta\u015f\u0131mak istiyordum.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><strong>FL\u00d6RT DE K\u0130 YANLI\u015eLIKLAR<\/strong><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">\u00c7evremde bir delikanl\u0131lar ile fl\u00f6rt eden k\u0131z arkada\u015flar\u0131m vard\u0131. Ancak fl\u00f6rt eden arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131n o y\u0131l\u0131\u015f\u0131k hallerini, o\u011flan\u0131n yap\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve c\u00fcretini ho\u015f kar\u015f\u0131lam\u0131yordum. Sonra benden b\u00fcy\u00fck baz\u0131 k\u0131zlar fl\u00f6rt ederlerken, delikanl\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan terk edilmi\u015fler ve bu k\u0131zlar b\u00fcy\u00fck yaln\u0131zl\u0131k i\u00e7ine itmi\u015flerdi.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Yine \u00e7evremde fl\u00f6rt etti\u011fi ve kendisini \u00e7ok seviyorum, dedi\u011fi delikanl\u0131 ile evlenen ancak birka\u00e7 sene sonra bo\u015fanarak ayr\u0131lan baz\u0131 k\u0131zlar tan\u0131yordum. Bunlar fl\u00f6rt ederlerken, \u201ckendi evlenece\u011fim e\u015fimi kendim tan\u0131mak ve daha sonra onunla evlenmek isterim\u201d dedikleri halde evlilikleri fazla uzun s\u00fcrmemi\u015fti.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Kendi kendime soruyordum, \u201cBu nas\u0131l tan\u0131ma ve nas\u0131l evlenme\u2026 Maden birbirinizi tan\u0131d\u0131n\u0131z ve evlendiniz. O halde ni\u00e7in bo\u015fan\u0131yorsunuz?\u201d<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Bo\u015fanan k\u0131zlar\u0131n durumu ger\u00e7ekten i\u00e7ler ac\u0131s\u0131yd\u0131. \u0130lk evlili\u011fi bo\u015fanma ile sonu\u00e7lanan bu k\u0131zlara, evlenmek i\u00e7in hi\u00e7 kimse talip olmuyordu. Bunlar k\u0131zken etraflar\u0131nda pervane gibi d\u00f6nen insanlardan art\u0131k kimse kalmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Bo\u015fanan bu k\u0131zlar toplum i\u00e7inde ikinci derecede bile de\u011fil, ta d\u00f6rd\u00fcnc\u00fc dereceden d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015flerdi.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Sonra annem veya babam, benin fl\u00f6rt etmesini nas\u0131l kar\u015f\u0131larlard\u0131? Her halde ho\u015f kar\u015f\u0131lamazlar diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyordum. \u201cAnnem ve babam, benim her zaman iyili\u011fimi ve mutlulu\u011fumu istemi\u015flerdir.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Onlar\u0131n benim fl\u00f6rt etmeme s\u0131cak bakmamalar\u0131 da yine benim iyili\u011fim i\u00e7indir. Onlar memnun olmad\u0131klar\u0131 halde ben fl\u00f6rt edersem onlar\u0131n kalplerini k\u0131rm\u0131\u015f ve \u00fczerimdeki haklar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7i\u011fnemi\u015f olmaz m\u0131y\u0131m?\u201d diye akl\u0131mdan ge\u00e7iriyordum.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Ge\u00e7enlerde ablam\u0131n (S) ad\u0131nda ki bir k\u0131z arkada\u015f\u0131 anlatm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. \u201cNi\u015fanl\u0131m B\u00fclent, bana talip olmadan \u00f6nce \u00e7ok beni ara\u015ft\u0131rm\u0131\u015f. Hatta ni\u015fanland\u0131ktan sonra da ara\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcrm\u00fc\u015f ve beni g\u00f6zlemlemi\u015f. Benim daha \u00f6nce hi\u00e7bir erkekle konu\u015fmam\u0131\u015f biri olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 anlay\u0131nca bana talip olmu\u015f ve benimle ni\u015fanlanmay\u0131 kabul etmi\u015fti\u201d demi\u015fti.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">\u0130\u015fin ba\u015f\u0131nda olmas\u0131 gereken en \u00f6nemli \u015fey, yarat\u0131c\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bu konuda ki emir ve yasaklar\u0131 nelerdir?\u201d \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc fl\u00f6rt yapanlar, k\u0131z olsun erkek olsun, bunlar birbirleri ile nik\u00e2hl\u0131 de\u011fillerdi. Ama ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 hayat sanki nik\u00e2hl\u0131 iki insan\u0131n hayat\u0131yd\u0131.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Bu kafam\u0131 kemiren sorular\u0131 din ve ahlak dersi hocas\u0131 Ahmet Hoca, zaman zaman derste a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131k getiriyor; \u201cBak\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar. Fl\u00f6rt yapmak, dinimizde yasaklanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Yarat\u0131c\u0131m\u0131z bir erkek ve k\u0131z\u0131, ancak nik\u00e2hlanmak suretiyle bir birinin helali olabilirler. Fl\u00f6rt yapan erkek ve k\u0131z\u0131n tutu\u015fmu\u015f olduklar\u0131 elleri, bunlar birbirinin helali de\u011fillerse o zaman helakleri (d\u00fcnya ve ahiret zararlar\u0131) olur\u201d diyordu.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Ama bu Hocay\u0131 dinleyen pek olmuyordu. Onlar birbirlerine, falan dizide k\u0131z o\u011flana ne demi\u015f, o\u011flan k\u0131za ne yapm\u0131\u015f bunlar\u0131 konu\u015fuyor, dizi de seyrettiklerini kendileri de uygulamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorlard\u0131.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">\u0130\u015fte b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor ve bir g\u00fcn kendisinin de bu ac\u0131 yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa itilmemesi i\u00e7in \u201cyap\u0131lacak fl\u00f6rte ile bu yolla evlenmeye de\u011fer mi, b\u00fct\u00fcn bu ac\u0131lar?\u201d diyordum.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Duyuyor ve takip ediyorum ki HAY-DER, Hay\u0131rda Yar\u0131\u015fanlar Derne\u011fi \u201cYuvam\u0131z\u201d diye bir b\u00fcro a\u00e7m\u0131\u015f. Gen\u00e7 k\u0131zlar hi\u00e7bir riziko ta\u015f\u0131madan hayallerinde ki \u201cBeyaz atl\u0131 prenslerini\u201d oradan bulmalar\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olabiliyormu\u015f.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Ne g\u00fczel bir haber bu\u2026 B\u00f6ylece gen\u00e7 k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z, b\u00fcnyesinde b\u00fcy\u00fck tehlikeler ta\u015f\u0131yan \u201cFl\u00f6rt yapmak\u201d yerine buradan kendileri i\u015fin uygun e\u015f bulabilecekler\u201d diyerek bizlere, selam ve sayg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 sunuyordu.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<p><strong>Nevzat Laleli\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0\/\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0AVRUPAPRESS<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A\u015fa\u011f\u0131da okuyaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z mektubunda H. A. ad\u0131nda bir gen\u00e7 k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131za aittir. Bu k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z mektubunda diyor ki; \u201cHayallerimin ba\u015f\u0131nda hi\u00e7 \u015f\u00fcphesiz, e\u015fim olacak delikanl\u0131n\u0131n beni sevmesi, benim de onu sevmem gerekir. Her gen\u00e7 k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z kocas\u0131 olacak delikanl\u0131n\u0131n, yani \u201cbeyaz atl\u0131 prensinin\u201d anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131, yak\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131, bir kariyer sahibi ve \u00e7evresinde sayg\u0131nl\u0131k uyand\u0131ran bir insan olmas\u0131n\u0131 ister. 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